One of the most underrated elements of free chat line is laughter. Laughter, when good-hearted and positive, is one of the best things in the world. Of course that is one opinion, but there is definitely something to be said about the positive emotions it brings into the world.
There are scientific studies that are out there that show that laughter is really good for people, in both their minds and their bodies. With all the science out there about the benefits of sex and masturbation, who can blame people for loving when the two are combined? Often play friends may laugh after great masturbation and sex, and the verdict is that sharing that with others makes it even better. Laughter is seen as a sign of a job well done.
When it comes having laughter in your phone chat, there are some do’s and don’ts.
Do: Keep it positive, unless the kinky phone play you are planning calls for something else. Communicate well if that is the case.
Do: Laugh when it both comes and makes sense. Faking laughter can come off as insincere, encouraging it is another story.
Do: Talk to each other and add words of affirmation if it makes sense.
Don’t: Bring body parts into it, unless the kinky phone play you are planning calls for something else. Communicate well if that is the case. Laughter over the phone is interpreted without the body language that accompanies it in person.
Don’t: Laugh at someone else’s expense, even your own. Laughing at people is a lot different and can be a turn-off.
Don’t: Hold in communication. If a phone partner laughs and it throws you out of the happy space you are in, make sure to talk about it. Most often this communication is appreciated and the person has not meant to hurt your feelings. Some professionals recommend waiting until after the experience unless it is something that you feel really needs to be addressed in the moment.
Taking a look at the experience after can be great once everyone has taken it in and are ready to chat about it in a way that doesn’t detract from the experience of the night, but adds to it.
Use these tips for sex, mutual masturbation, but also for phone chats and life. The people you talk to will appreciate it!
